Are you sexually free? (Do you have multiple partners? Is it an activity that you do just to do it? Is it a hobby to you? do you compare it to your favorite sport or daily activity?, etc)
What does it take for you to become sexually involved with someone? (Good looks, emotional connection, one good conversations, etc)
"Emotionally connection..."
Does it necessarily have to be a relationship? "No, if the connection is there, if I'm well in the moment then... Why not? I want to try new things with that guy, I wanna share something new with him in that moment" - Patti, 21 M
"It use to be an emotional connection for me..."
What made it change? The girls' that I've been in relationships ruined it for me.
How so? They don't know what they want. Sex became the only worth while in the relationship, putting the emotional state in the back seat." -Tommy, 32 M
"I agree with Tommy, It use to be about the emotions, but that emotional state was lost'
Women F-ck it up because us men are at their sexual mercy.
Why do you say that? For example, on average a man will admit when he wants to have sex with that woman whether its within 10 secs or a month if meeting her, a women will tell her friends but not to the man's face."- Derek, 30 M
"I'm not sexually free, I can't go around having' sex with all kinda people, I just can't do that."-Lyna, 20 F
"There needs to be something special, there has to be a chemistry, a "crazy" connection. I dont have sex just to have sex" Edimer, 21 M
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Definitely EMOTIONAL CONNECTION!!!!!- Nomi Omi ya Homi, 20 F
I lost my virginity when I was 18 yrs old and it was with someone who I trusted and felt that I could share that gift with. I didn't regret it, I still don't. I can count on less than one hand how many partners I've had. I was not forced into anything with these men and they were definitely moments that I cherished and didn't take for granted. There was always a high level of RESPECT and emotional connection with each person. I am not the type of female to have multiple partners because I know (1) I can and (2) Because it is offered to me.
Tip: When you choose to share yourself with someone it should be for reasons of your own, not what anyone else thinks, wants, or expects from you.
Deep!
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